April 14, 2025

N is for Nest

        (My A to Z Blog Challenge theme this year is Bittersweetness & Light, my new collection of hope-filled, joy-inducing fantasy and sci fi short stories, poems, and art.  I’m
sharing lots of excerpts of art, stories, and poetry, plus some of the background on why we urgently need joyful stories that remind us of positive possibilities.)
        This one is a true story, about the robin’s nest built in the forsythia right outside my front door during the COVID lockdown in 2020.  I watched it every day, and took pictures as the four eggs were laid and hatched, and the chicks grew their fluff and then their feathers, and finally left the nest.  Here’s an excerpt from the middle of the poem.

         The robins by the door don’t share

     This silent, covert storm that stopped our lives inside,

     Suspending our days and their activities.  We wait,

     While they, from nest to eggs,

     From eggs to blind and hungry beaks,

     Day by day keep feathering themselves

     And jostling as usual toward flight.


        I already wrote a whole post about the illustration, which is a rubber block print with watercolor.  You can read Robin’s Nest in the Studio to find out all about it.
        N is also for Negativity Bias.  It turns out that humans are actually hardwired to pay more attention to bad news than good, and to focus more on the next disaster than on the equally valid and realistic reasons for hope.  As a survival strategy this has kept people alive since prehistory, but as a strategy for thriving it turns out to be less than helpful – especially in a time when a global 24-hour news feed is built on the assumption that only bad news is important news.  Humans consistently give disproportionate weight to negative facts - which is exactly why we need constant reminders that good things do actually happen all around.  This book is just one small attempt to encourage you to remember that love, generosity, connection, joy, and hope are real and powerful, even when your ingrained negativity bias may tell you that they aren’t.
        Marketing Moral: Stay in touch with your favorite indie authors by signing up for their Newsletters.  We love to connect with our readers.  Want to join my Infrequent Newsletter?  Here’s the link.  As the name implies, I send email infrequently, maybe about once a month, but it’s a chance to let you know what projects and events I’ve got coming up, and to share stories and poems that have been published.
        Proper Moral:  The early bird gets the worm.  But even more importantly, you can tell a person’s character by how they treat the weak.  Do unprotected eggs or helpless chicks (or marginalized people) elicit cruelty or tenderness, scapegoating or inclusion?
        Of course I have to ask the eternal nest-themed question: which came first, the chicken or the egg?  Got an opinion?


[Picture: Robin’s Nest, rubber block print with watercolor by AEGNydam, 2024 (Image from Bittersweetness & Light, but originals are still available at NydamPrints.com).]

10 comments:

Karen Packard Rhodes said...

The egg. Chickens probably resulted from a genetic mutation. The egg laid by the bird in which the mutation took place would be, therefore, the first chicken egg. My two cents.

I have been enjoying your book, Bittersweetness & Light. As a former librarian, I'm saving the first story for last. I want to savor the adventure of a librarian rapelling down into a book. Great image! Your book comes at a good time for me, with bouts of depression -- which I've never experienced before in my 78 years -- caused both by the insanity and criminality coming out of Washington, D.C. and by the terminal illlness of our younger daughter. So thank you for the little bits of joy you provide. It is a much-needed service.

PAX said...

I'm sorry to hear about your daughter, Karen. That's hard. As for the insanity and cruelty, I've discovered I do not need to listen to repetitious news, or read about it all the time. Having too good a sense of what is transpiring, the headlines plus a few articles about topics especially near to my heart, are sufficient. Finding a bird nest to watch, having a well-visited bird feeder brings me joy, and yes, rereading Anne's book is helps me.

Sue Bursztynski said...

Hi Anne! What a lovely story about the bird’s nest! I admit I do prefer to hear good news. When someone says, “I have to talk to you,” I KNOW it’s going to be bad news, not “I want to tell you how much I enjoy your writing” and listen, but reluctantly.

My N post for this year’s A to Z is N Is For Non-fiction. https://suebursztynski.blogspot.com/2025/04/a-to-z-blogging-challenge-2025_14.html?showComment=1744682207779#c3412685606442815115

Anne Young said...

I thnk you have captured the blue of the eggs perfectly. I am very fond of forsythia - a terrific yellow. We had a forsythia at our previous house.

Lisa said...

Another uplifting post. Thank you, Anne.

Anne E.G. Nydam said...

Karen, either of those things is something no one should ever have to bear and to have them together just utterly stinks. I'm so sorry you're dealing with this. I'm deeply honored that my book can provide any amount of solace. Thank you for letting me know.

Anne E.G. Nydam said...

Yes, it certainly seems like a rare and lovely surprise when someone wants to talk to you about something positive!

Allison said...

What a gorgeous nest print! I love seeing eggs in a nest and watching for the birds in spring.

- Allison
https://lightningflashwriting.blogspot.com/

Deborah Weber said...

Your print is beautiful. Forsythia and robin's eggs - so lovely. And your post had me remembering the time of sequestering, and how profoundly helpful I found it to know the natural world of flora and fauna were carrying on. I spent a lot of time watching a pair of sparrows build a nest on our porch and raise their family.

Erin Penn said...

Your prints really add to your blog - such gorgeous artwork. The egg before the chicken, because the chicken comes out of the egg.